Kuwait. Jordan. I rarely consider Middle Eastern countries because I lack a compelling reason to do so. For example, all I know about Jordan is its biblical references, and that’s about it. However, as soon as I started reading this book, I found myself Googling about Kuwait – discovering its beautiful beaches. Jordan, being an ancient country, holds significant historical sites; Jesus was baptized in the Jordan River by John, Mount Nebo stands there, and not to forget the majestic city of Petra.
This is precisely why I enjoy books. They transport me to places without leaving the comfort of my bed or favourite coffee shop. I learn about diverse cultures from corners of the world I wouldn’t otherwise explore. Books truly are magical.
I picked up this book prompted by the ongoing events in Palestine. I wanted to learn about its history but, through a different lens – that of a novel.
“Against the Loveless World” unfolds the life of Nahir, a young woman born to refugee parents who fled war in Palestine and sought refuge in Kuwait. Nahir, meaning “River,” was named by her mother, because she was pregnant while crossing the river on their way to Kuwait. Nahir had three names: Nahir, given by her mother; Yaqoot, given by her father, inspired by the woman he was involved with during an affair (yes, I know); and Almas, symbolizing the girl’s resilience in shouldering familial responsibilities. This girl learned about pain, shame, and honour.
Nahir tells her life story from within a detention cube, where she is held on terrorism charges. Amidst confinement, she shares stories of Bilal, the national hero and her idol, recounting stories of resilience, love, family dynamics, friendships, and resistance.
It’s a love story. It is a story about pain, refugee struggles, and defiance against oppression. A search for identity. It’s about finding one’s footing in a world devoid of love.
The story is well written. The interplay between characters resonates deeply, evoking empathy and understanding of their anguish. Take Nahir’s mother, for instance – an epitome of strength and kindness, enduring countless tribulations yet always standing firm.
She reminded me of my mother, which made me appreciate her even more for her sacrifices and unconditional love. Bilal and Nahir’s love story, and their relationship’s profound healing qualities, struck a chord within me. It’s the kind of love that nurtures, rooted in intentionality, openness, and mutual support, offering reasons to persevere.
Favourite Quotes:
When you don’t react predictably, it throws people off, hopefully long enough to have the upper hand.
Tomorrow morning you get out of bed, clear your head, and decide how you will live. It is that simple. You make that one decision. Then you make another, and another. There are no forces holding you in this pathetic state. You are young, beautiful, and healthy. You have a home, family, and friends. Start from there.
Normal isn’t what people do. You make your own normal.
What is wrong with wanting more for my children?
For the ones we love, nothing is ever a trouble, and everything is never enough.
Only we determine how our relationship should be. We can be whatever we want to each other…all I ask is honesty. I will give you the same, and I will always work to earn and keep your love, respect, and loyalty.
This is a book that anyone intrigued by history should explore. It offers a fresh perspective, educational yet sad. It’s not an easy read, but amidst the sadness, you’ll find moments that uplift your spirits. Some parts will make you smile, while others may bring tears to your eyes.
Happy reading,
Jane 🙂
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